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Real talk from straight and straight-ish guys. We recently asked straight men of the BuzzFeed Community to tell us about their experiences hooking up with other guys.

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Here's what they said. TL;DR I'm a straight guy who experimented with a gay guy simply because I wasn't sure I was straight. Well I actually went through with it. I thought about bailing so much. But I had a few beers (not drunk) and went forward with it. Guy was cool, not pushy, and understanding that this was my first time. As a queer man in a fraternity, my college career was straight men trying to explain away their queer tendencies as jokes and misunderstandings.

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Lurking within the many pages of findings is statistical evidence that a number of straight men out there are indeed having gay sex with each other, no homo. (Except actually lots of homo.) The. Dear Jake,. Subscribe to our Newsletter today. I recently decided to act on my curiosity to see how it felt. I downloaded an app, chatted with a guy in my town who seemed attractive enough, and met up with him.

But, as soon as the encounter started, I wanted out. I was regretting it the whole time. Is it too late to go back to identifying as straight, after having gay sex? How do I shake this feeling of regret for doing something that will affect how everyone sees me now? Gay for A Day. Dear Gay for a Day,.

I applaud you for having the courage to try something you were curious about in order to learn more about yourself. Experimenting to figure out how things resonate is exactly what you should be doing. After all, if guys are really your thing, you should feel excited and aroused, not regretful and averse. You get to define your sexual orientation for yourself, even if that means you had to test the waters in order to figure out what that is.

If other people hear about it and judge, so be it. You define you, not them. Otherwise, you might have always wondered. I encourage you to continue your exploration, in whatever way feels right for you. If you have a question for Jake, please email jakemyers queerty. Is it too late for me to be straight? Story by Jake Myers.