Gay men terminology

From playful terms of endearment to empowering phrases, the world of gay slang is as diverse as the community itself. At Fluentslang, we’ve done our research to bring you a curated list of the top slang words and phrases used by gay men. Want to know what “trade,” “vers,” or “power bottom” really mean? This updated gay slang glossary breaks down 40 must-know terms every queer should learn and live by. Your complete dictionary of every single LGBTQ+ term you ever wanted to know.

From asexual to ze, this glossary has you covered. Glossary of important LGBTQ+ terms and slang like: boots the house down, eleganza, genderqueer, mother, polysexual, sapphic, twink, wig, etc. Term describing people who have a non-normative gender identity, sexual orientation, or sexual anatomy—includes lesbians, gay men, bisexual people, and transgender people and allies.

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gay slang terms

Have you always wondered why your friends laughed at you when you said you loved vanilla? Are you surprised that people could be that into otters? More importantly, what is an otter? Whether you are an out-and-proud gay man or an in-the-closet newbie, your dictionary of gay slang will always be as varied as your little black book of boys. Bear: An older, broader hairier man who unlike his namesake, does not need to hibernate.

Beefcake: A gay man who spends most of his time at the gym, and the rest of it scooping spoonfuls of protein supplement into his post-workout shakes. Chubby Chaser: A gay man who likes his sexual partners just like he likes his pillows — soft and cuddly.

Cruise: To seek casual gay sex encounters — usually in restrooms, pubs or sometimes, even by the corner streetlight, so that you can regret them the morning after. Cub: A younger version of the Bear , heavier than the Otter. May or may not deal with body issues. Daddy Chaser: A gay man who likes his partners older, richer, but not necessarily wiser. Discreet: A man who is either in a relationship or in denial, and wants sex on the side.

Sexual toys may or may not be involved. Iron Closet: A gay man who is in such deep denial of his sexuality, he might never step out of the closet. Kinky: Anything that is not Vanilla sexually, but peach apricot with hazelnuts. Looking for Networking: A man who travels a lot and is on the lookout for vacation flings. Otter: A thinner, younger version of the Bear. Has nothing to do with the animal. Not to be confused with the derogatory term used during the American pre-Civil Rights era.

The Closet: A place where you keep all your ridiculously expensive clothes, your snug woolens, and yourself, when you are not out to the world. Tonsil Hockey: When you are kissing someone so fiercely, it could be a competitive sport. Vanilla: Someone who likes his sex just like he likes his family values, traditional. Also, may not howl at the moon if you ask him too.

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