First time with a gay guy

A delayed train. A handsome stranger making conversation. And a straight guy who never once questioned his sexuality suddenly finding himself excited about a date with another man. A few years ago, a man shared this story on Reddit, capturing that rare, electric moment when attraction completely blindsides you and everything you thought you knew about yourself shifts in an instant.

How did your first gay experience happen? Growing up I noticed that I had an attraction for men and women. I accepted the fact that I am bisexual at a very early age.

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NOW I am a 17 year old guy and have not yet had my first gay experience. I have been with maanny women though. It was so exciting and anxiety-provoking all at the same time. I could not believe my eyes when I got to the ferry station and there were hundreds of beautiful boys and men all going to Cherry Grove. I did not realize there were this many gay people in the entire world let alone right here in my neck of the woods.

Here are queer romantic stories spanning 50 years of first encounters. This is the story of my first time and, as many first times on anything, it didn't´t go well because of my inexperience. Many say they knew they were gay their whole lives, not my case. In a sexual context, bottoming is the act of taking a dick or a dick-shaped object in your ass.

On one level, bottoming is really no big deal — if you like riding dick, go ahead and ride it. But on another, butt-fucking is still cloaked in myth and stigma. Happily, Howley says this reductive presumption is finally dying out as we all become more open-minded. When you get into the swing of it, bottoming can feel both subtly subversive — take that, patriarchy! Then when you feel loosened up, add another.

At the same time, medical professionals have said that douching before anal sex is definitely not necessary and should be done carefully and sparingly. Excessive use of enemas, for example, can lengthen your colon and lead to constipation in later life fun! It all comes down to making a personal and informed choice. It empowers them.

He also likes to douche. And if I want to be rimmed, I feel like I percent have to douche. Which brings us onto…. Nine out of ten tops will have seen it all before. It might take time to find your favourite lube, but Bradley from Durham recommends Liquid Silk. For Staples, lube is completely non-negotiable. Still, be aware that your first time might hurt. This helps to open your passage and should lessen any pain and make it more enjoyable.

And if you take a load in your ass, remember that what goes up must come down — but maybe not until the next day. By Stephen Andrew Galiher. By Luis Prada. By Veronica Booth. By Shaun Cichacki. Videos by VICE. Read Next.